On; Life | ©Mr Daniel M. Fisher | Remember the belief, ‘All is One’?
- ©Mr Daniel M. Fisher

- 2 days ago
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Experience has taught me to distrust the thoughts of stupidity which are normally aimed at people who refuse to comply. I choose a better attitude towards others and expect myself to empathise because, in the choice to be free from blind hatred and intense fear, I realised a-ffective ideation does cripple my sense of continuity in life.
This concept is usually called self-realisation and is based on the idea that being human is a given, as we all have earned a world of insight gained from hard failure and loss, which is unlocked in us and then disseminated when we finally discover our true nature. In my case emotion is just a stepping stone to a creative solution, as I have the courage to seek an answer and then later question my process, which is a real reason to actually listen and learn.
By using self-awareness I gain another form of knowledge, learning by nature is inherently self-directed and is of no fundamental consequence, as to learn the hard way is not required if there is the desire to change in the first place. This can be half the battle, with choice, will, and intent my allies in conquering my reluctance. Which always comes with the feeling of not being able to cope with life’s demands.
As encouragement, if I can participate in something good then I find a shred of self-determination and a positive direction, however small my contribution might be, my life becomes enriched as a result of feeling in control. Stubbing the notion that if I do not take part, I have no recourse for complaint when life becomes chaotic.
I am of the belief, the more I stretch myself out-with my comfort zone then I become more open to the possibility of creating a connection. This is because it’s hard for me to accept that all life is solely dependent on bad experiences, as often what is necessary is just to see the truth. I call it self-confidence, and to me it's the freedom to live and act authentically, by observing my reality I naturally come to my own conclusions, and in the process begin to understand other people better.
I do not know what motivates some people as in life I have only ever seen a certain amount of inherently neurotic ideation. This manifests as a crippling sense of insecurity that renders them fragile. Human rights happily come about by asking ‘whose truth’, because there is yours, mine, theirs, societies, the list could be much longer.
By nature I’m a very ’up front’ person and authenticity is a major aspect of my beliefs, but by being the silent observer I can patiently wait for the truth to emerge, which sooner or later it does, by then it’s time to act and speak. As I love cultivating the strength and faith of people who have had no support themselves.
Hence if you fall into the trap of putting it all at other people’s door, I would potentially be listening to nothing else and choose not to learn from the reported facts. For me, gossip only ‘gives me the title of the book, the chapter and heading, but no actual story’. I personally would like to feel sure I am getting the correct picture, and think it’s necessary to know the who, how, what, why, and where, given the broken nature of our society.
I believe tolerance is knowing that you are in control and have the capacity to ensure that you think about the rights of other people who suffer the most in life. Get in touch with reality, find out how life affects other people, and for how long it takes some of them to recover from their level of hurt.
I stand firm in any discussion about the trauma people have suffered and I will give you something to think about, It’s not just one of us, it’s all of us. What about the certainty of being kind and caring people who rely on each other no matter how bad it gets; because in this way our achievements are outstanding.
Nothing comes near the level of joy I feel by holding the hand of a loved one, or thinking about those living more or less on their own. Please remember the mantra, authenticity is strength, lying is weak, I have long since ceased being blind to other people’s needs.
It's a very underhanded lie to portray others as weak and ineffectual because we should all learn to ask our conscience, ‘have people heard and listened to me’, ‘is society really all that diffident’? The answer comes NATURALLY and INEVITABLY owing to our collective choice for ‘betterment’.

©Mr Daniel M. Fisher, of All Seasons Art Studio, 2024

